3 Ask them to consider trying one of the following techniques that have been shown to lower irritability. Gratitude exercise: Spend 10 minutes each morning journaling about three things for which theyâre grateful and whyâwhat that thing means to them and why it makes them feel thankful. Mindfulness meditation: Focus on breathing, feeling
Jump to section Why is talking less important? 6 reasons why you should speak less and listen more Learning the art of listening Learning how to talk less and listen more makes you a stronger conversationalist There are a few of us who just love to talk. Weâre often extroverts, and weâve often got a lot of things to say that we believe others need to hear itâs not always about the sound of our own voice. The thing is, when weâre doing the talking, weâre typically not doing a whole lot of listening, and often not a lot of learning either. So, there are a few reasons why you might want to talk less, listen more, and become a better conversationalist. Today, youâll learn six reasons why you should learn to chat less. Weâll also cover some helpful tips on how to listen more and get more out of the conversations you have every day. Why is talking less important? So, why would you want to focus less on communicating your own thoughts and becoming a better listener? The primary reason is that if you become a good listener, youâll have better quality conversations. How? Others will enjoy speaking with you because we all love to talk, and theyâll open up more Youâll be better able to read non-verbal cues such as body language Others will be more open to your point of view when you do speak You might just learn something new Benefits like these make developing good listening skills worthwhile. Letâs look a bit deeper. 6 reasons why you should speak less and listen more There are many reasons why learning to listen more is important. Letâs look at six of them 1. You might just learn something Itâs Petersonâs 9th rule for life Assume that the person you are listening to might know something you donât. After all, isnât that more often going to be the case? Everyone has unique experiences, skills, and talents that you can learn from. By learning to talk less and listen more, you can reframe your part of the conversation to be more about learningâ than about preaching.â Letâs look at an example Youâre having a conversation with your manager at work about how best to approach new sales outreach for the quarter. Youâre adamant that automated email campaigns are the way to go. After all, youâve been doing them for years and had great success. In fact, itâs one of the reasons you were hired as a sales leader in the first place. But the VP of sales has a different idea. They want to initiate cold outreach via LinkedIn. Youâve spent years crafting your email campaign skills and neglected social outreach because youâve been getting great results elsewhere. However, even though youâve found success with your approach, there is something worth exploring in your bossâs suggestion. In this scenario, if youâve learned to listen more and speak less, you might pull some gold nuggets of information from your manager. You might even decide together on a dual approach. 2. Youâll gain the respect and trust of whoever youâre talking to Youâve probably heard of Dale Carnegieâs âHow to Win Friends and Influence People.â Itâs one of the most influential and best-selling books of all time, and itâs all about communication and interpersonal relationships. One of the most valuable recommendations Carnegie makes is that if you can become a great listener and encourage others to speak about themselves, then youâll gain their respect and admiration. Think back to the last time you went out on a date, and you went home thinking, âWow, I really enjoyed myself. We had some great conversations, and they were really interesting.â How much did you talk about yourself, and how much did they speak about themselves? Now, try to think about the last date you went on that was truly terrible this one might come to mind more easily. Chances are, they spoke about themselves the whole time and barely asked any questions about you. This phenomenon applies not only to romantic relationships but to interpersonal relationships with friends, family, and colleagues. Get them to speak about themselves, and youâll gain their trust, admiration, and respect. 3. Youâll command attention when you do speak Why is it that so many successful people are able to walk into a room and instantly command attention? Sure, their success itself is an influencing factor people want to hear what successful people have to say. When they do speak, what they say has more impact. Their speech is more concise and more relevant to the conversation at hand than those who speak more regularly. Practice the art of listening, and youâll command more attention when you add to the conversation. 4. You can keep your cards close to your chest Not every conversation is a casual, comfortable chat with friends. Some conversations youâll have, especially in the professional context, can be quite challenging. You might strongly disagree with the viewpoints of your co-workers. However, the last thing you want to do is get into a heated argument and negatively impact the office culture. Plus, you can learn more about how theyâve come to develop their point of view since it differs so heavily from yours. Learning how to speak less and listen more helps you to keep your own opinions close to your chest and allows you to dig deeper into the mindset of others. This can help avoid workplace conflict, and it aids you in developing a more holistic worldview. 5. Youâre less likely to say anything dumb or that you might regret Weâve all been there. Youâre deeply involved in a conversation you're passionate about, and youâre off on a tangent. You havenât quite clicked yet that youâre the only one speaking until you say something that results in an unfavorable reaction from your peers. Maybe you gave an opinion thatâs unsavory, undeveloped, and doesnât really represent how you think and feel. Maybe you let slip some information that was supposed to be kept private. Maybe you just minced your words and made a bit of a fool of yourself. By learning how to talk less and listen more, you give yourself space to develop your ideas. You have more time to formulate these ideas into articulate sentences, and youâre less likely to say something that leaves you blushing. 6. You can keep the conversation going Conversations die pretty quickly when nobody has anything left to say. Often, this happens because both parties have said all of the things they wanted to say. When youâre focused on listening rather than waiting for an opportunity to speak, youâll come up with good questions that can keep a conversation going. Youâll learn more about your conversational partnerâs point of view by asking great questions too, and youâll often find that the conversation is so engaging that you end up discussing points that have seemingly nothing to do with the original talking point. Learning the art of listening So, how do you learn how to talk less and listen more? The best way to work on this is to improve your active listening skills. Here are a few tips Maintain good eye contact. You can infer a lot of meaning by looking the other person in the eye. Separate judgment. Try not to judge what the other person is saying. Youâre likely to go off on a tangent in your head, trying to find ways to explain how theyâre wrong. Donât jump ahead. We often try to predict what others are going to say next. When we do this, we formulate answers based on what we think they are going to say, rather than what they are actually saying, Seek to understand, not just to respond. Try to stop waiting for your opportunity to speak and continue to actively listen to what the other person is saying. Let them fully express their ideas before you speak. Become comfortable with silence. One of the reasons many of us are so eager to speak next is because we feel awkward when there is silence in between speakers. You can reduce this discomfort by communicating to the other party that you are thinking before speaking a simple hmmmâ works well. Reflect back to them what they just said. A great way to show that youâre listening and that you understand what is being said is to repeat back what youâve just heard. This usually sounds something like, âSo what youâre saying isâŠâ Ask for clarity. If you arenât able to reflect back to them, it could be that you didnât fully understand what they meant. Donât be afraid to ask them to clarify. This will show that youâre actively engaged in the conversation. Learning how to talk less and listen more makes you a stronger conversationalist Developing your listening skills and becoming a truly influential conversationalist is one of those easier said than doneâ things. But itâs a challenge thatâs well worth investing in, thanks to these six benefits You might just learn something Youâll gain the respect and trust of whoever youâre talking to Youâll command attention when you do speak You can keep your cards close to your chest Youâre less likely to say anything dumb or that you might regret You can keep the conversation going If youâre reading this as a leader looking to improve your listening and conversational skills, then youâre probably committed to continuous self-development. Sound like you? Check out how BetterUp helps leaders with organizational growth and transformation. Published July 29, 2021
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Kata Talk less do more kelihatannya memang seperti tagline/slogan sebuah iklan rokok. Padahal kata itu lebih mirip sebuah quotes daripada slogan iklan rokok. Banyak orang yang nge-TALKnya banyak tapi DO-nya itu sedikit. Orang kayak gini ada? ada, bahkan saya menemui 3 orang seperti ini di hidup saya, untuk saat nanti bakal nambah lagi apa ga. Tipe orang kayak gini itu omongnya tinggi banget, katanya punya ini, punya itu, bisnis ini dan bisnis itu tapi saat tak liat ke dirinya aku juga bertanya* omangannya seperti itu tapi dia sendiri diliat dari kepribadian dan kelakuannya juga ga mirip sama yang diomngin. waduh, kalo ketemu makhluk seperti itu saya antara percaya ga percaya sama apa yang dia omonging tapi yaa tak iyain aja. Arti kata Talk less Do MoreBalik lagi ke topik pembicaraan kita, apa itu arti TALK LESS DO MORE ? kalo arti kata itu diterjemahkan ke dalam bahasa indonesia maka Talk less do more artinya itu adalah Sedikit bicara banyak bertindak. Kita kupas satu persatu Talk = Bicara/ngomong Less = Sedikit/lebih sedikit Do = Bertindak/Action, atau bisa juga "melakukan sesuatu" More = Lebih/lebih banyak Jadi kalo disatukan jadinya Ngomongnya sedikit tapi bertindaknya banyak. Jadi itu orang ga suka banyak omong tapi lebih suka banyak bertindak. Ngerti kan maksudnya? nah, kalo orang yang tak sebutin di awal artikel ini yaitu orang yang banyak bicara tapi bertindaknya sedikit. sama kayak Tong kosong nyaring bunyinya. Ngomongnya ini itu tapi buktinya ga ada, halah. Ngomong opo to jal. Arti kata NATONah ini masih ada hubungannya dengan yang diatas namun kebalikannya, kata ini artinya sama kayak Tong Kosong Nyaring = No Action Talk = Tau kan arti kata NO?Action = Ini juga, kan kata*nya udah mirip = Sama kayak yang diatasOnly = Hanya. Only for you, hanya untuk ya NATO yang ini bukan kelompok NATO yang organisasi internasinal itu lho yaa? ini cuma nato arti kata. jadi nato itu Ga ada aksinya tapi cuma bicara doang, ibaratnya dia cuma suruh* doang tapi dianya ga mau praktekin. Yaa semacam bos gitu lhaa. Nyuruh ini,itu, haduh.
Baliklagi ke topik pembicaraan kita, apa itu arti TALK LESS DO MORE ? kalo arti kata itu diterjemahkan ke dalam bahasa indonesia maka Talk less do more artinya itu adalah Sedikit bicara banyak bertindak. Kita kupas satu persatu Talk = Bicara/ngomong Less = Sedikit/lebih sedikit Do = Bertindak/Action, atau bisa juga "melakukan sesuatu"
Arti dan Penggunaan more â Saat berbicara tentang kuantitas, jumlah, dan tingkat yang melebihi dari yang lain, kita dapat mengunakan kata âmoreâ. Kata ini juga biasa dipakai dalam kalimat perbandingan. Sebagaimana saya contohkan dalam kalimat berikut You look more beautiful than ever. Kamu kelihatan lebih cantik dari sebelumnya. Kita dapat menggunakan more dengan beberapa kelas kata yang berbeda. Seperti dengan noun, adjective, adverb, verb, dan preposition dalam contoh-contoh berikut more + noun Ask me for more answers. Bertanyalah kepadaku untuk mendapat jawaban lebih. more + adjective You look more beutiful. Kamu kelihatan lebih cantik verb + more Talk less, do more. berbicaralah sedikit, perbanyaklah berbuat. more + adverb You speak English more clearly Kamu berbicara bahasa Inggris secara lebih jelas. more + prepositional phrase Whoâs more in need of water? Siapa yang lebih membutuhkan air? More dengan noun More dapat digandeng dengan plural countable noun dan uncountable noun Contoh dengan countable noun There are more books on the table you can read. Ada beberapa buku lainnya di atas meja yang dapat kamu baca. Contoh dengan uncountable noun We need more information about him. Kita perlu informasi tambahan tentang dia. More tanpa noun Biasanya kita menghilangkan noun setelah more ketika noun dianggap sudah jelas. I need some water Aku perlu sedikit air. Is there any more? more water More of Saat kita menggunakan more sebelum article a/an, the, demonstrative pronoun this, that, possessive pronoun my, your or objective pronoun him, it, maka kita perlu memasangkannya dengan kata of. I want to eat more of that delicious cake. Aku ingin makan lagi kue yang lezat itu. I need more of your books to read. Aku perlu buku-buku mu yang lain untuk dibaca. I want to know more of her. Aku ingin tahu lebih tentang dia. More and more Kita sering menggunakan âmore dan moreâ untuk menekankan bertambah dan berkurangnya sesuatu. You talk more and more. Kamu berbicara terus-terusan. Post Views 3,463 Related posts100+ Contoh Akronim Bahasa Inggris Populer100+ Kosakata Bahasa Inggris Tentang Jiwaâ 200+ Nama Anggota Keluarga Bahasa Inggris300+ Kosakata Bahasa Inggris Ruangan & Artinya Lengkap300+ Istilah Bahasa Inggris di Kantor Yang Biasa DigunakanVariasi Arti Wish Berikut Contohnya dalam Kalimat300+ Kosakata Lingkungan Dalam Bahasa Inggris500+ Kosakata Bahasa Inggris di Dapur Lengkap195+ Nama Negara Dalam Bahasa Inggris [Ibu kota & Benua]300+ Istilah Waktu Bahasa Inggris [Artinya]Perbedaan Much, Many, a Lot of, dan Lots of5+ Daftar Arti Insecure, Penyebab, & Cara Mengatasinya
ArtiFriday, May 7, 2010. Unsent Mails in Drafts. i want to be happy..i'm so tired.. its killing me..don't feel like talking to anyone.. no one but yet i want to be heard by someone.. i can't figure a single person whom i want to talk to now.. No one knows me better than my self more than myself.. so how can some one tell
Download Article Download Article Many people want to learn to talk less and listen more. Listening more can help you gain information, learn more about others, and learn to express yourself concisely. 1 Speak only when it's important. Before you speak, ask yourself if what you're saying is truly important. You should avoid talking when you're not really contributing to the conversation.[1] People tend to listen to those who choose their words carefully. Someone who's always sharing their opinion or telling stories may lose people's interest with time. If you have a tendency to talk too much, you may find yourself constantly sharing information unnecessarily. 2 Avoid speaking to fill empty space. Oftentimes, people speak to fill empty space. You may find yourself speaking in professional situations, such as work or school, to ease your anxiety about silence. Sometimes, silence is okay and you do not need to talk just to fill space.[2] For example, if you and co-worker are in the break room at the same time, you do not have to make small talk. If your co-worker does not seem interested in talking, they may not be in the mood for social interaction. In this case, it's okay to offer a polite smile and let the silence happen. Advertisement 3 Think about your words carefully. If you talk too frequently, you may say the first thing that comes to mind without filtering yourself. Learning to speak less means learning to think about your words. Before saying something, try to think about the words you're going to say ahead of time. This may help you learn to keep certain things to yourself, leading you to speak less overall.[3] People often reveal information they'd rather keep private through speaking too much. When you think of something you want to add, especially if it's something very personal, pause. Remember you can always share new information later, but you can never make information private again once you've shared it. 4 Be aware of time when you speak. Having a rough sense of how long you've been talking can help you speak less. In general, after about 20 seconds of speaking you're at risk for losing the listener's attention. After this point, tune in to the listener. Look for any cues they're losing interest.[4] Watch body language. The listener may fidget or check their phone if they're getting bored. Their eyes may also begin to wander. Try to wrap it up within the next 20 seconds and give the speaker a chance to share. In general, try not to talk for more than 40 seconds at a time. Any longer than this may make the listener feel irritated or talked over. 5 Think about whether you speak out of anxiety. People often talk too much due to underlying social anxiety. Pay attention to when you're talking a lot. Do you feel anxious? If so, work on coping in other ways.[5] When you find yourself speaking too much, pause and evaluate your mood. How are you feeling? Are you feeling anxious? You can do things like count to 10 in your head or take deep breaths if you're anxious. You can also try giving yourself a pep talk before social events. Remind yourself that it's okay to be nervous, but you should relax and try to have fun. If social anxiety is a major problem for you, see a therapist to address it. 6 Avoid speaking to impress others. In work situations especially, people tend to talk too much to impress others. If you notice you talk a lot, think about whether you're trying to show off. If you tend to talk too much to impress others, try to remind yourself others will be more impressed by what you say than how much you say. Instead of going overboard talking about yourself, reserve your input for moments when you can contribute something valuable to the conversation. Advertisement 1 Focus only on the speaker. When in a conversation, do not look at your phone or glance around the room. Do not think about things like what you're going to do after work or eat for dinner that night. Direct your attention solely on the speaker. This will help you listen better, as you'll focus on what's being said.[6] Keep your eyes on the speaker most of the time. If you find other thoughts creeping in, remind yourself to return to the present and listen. 2 Maintain eye contact. Eye contact shows you're paying attention. Meet the person's eyes as they talk. Eye contact conveys that you're paying attention and present. A lack of eye contact can come off as rude or disinterested.[7] Electronic devices, like cell phones, can often demand our attention, especially if they make noise or give off notifications. Keep your phone in your purse or pocket when talking to someone so you're not tempted to look elsewhere. Eye contact can also let you know if you're boring someone else. If someone breaks eye contact while you're speaking, you may be talking too much. Pause and give the speaker a turn. 3 Think about what the speaker is saying. Listening is not a passive act. While the speaker talks, it's your job to listen to what they're saying. Try to withhold judgment while you do so. Even if you disagree with what's being said, wait your turn to speak. Do not think about how you'll respond while the speaker is talking.[8] It can help to try to picture what's being communicated. Create images in your mind that represent what the speaker is saying. You can also try to latch on to key words and phrases while the speaker talks. 4 Clarify what the speaker is saying. In any conversation, it will eventually be your turn to share. Before doing so, however, make it clear you were listening. Paraphrase in your own words what the speaker said and ask any questions you have.[9] Do not repeat what the speaker said verbatim. Just rephrase your understanding of what they said. Also, keep in mind that active listening is meant to help you pay close attention to the speaker and let them know you are listening. Do not use active listening as a way to interject or make your opinions known. For example, say something like, "So, you're saying you are stressed about the upcoming office party." Then, follow up with a question. For example, say, "Where do you think this stress is coming from? Do you want to talk about that?" Make sure to be empathetic and non-judgmental as you listen to the speaker. You can express respect and validate their position without giving up your own position. Advertisement 1 Express yourself when necessary. Do not take speaking less to mean not asserting and expressing yourself. If you have a serious concern, or an opinion you feel is important, do not hesitate to speak up. Part of speaking less is knowing when it is valuable to share.[10] For example, if you're going through a serious problem in your personal life, it's okay to share with others if you need support. It's also important to share if your opinion could be valuable. If you, say, have a strong opinion about something at work, it can be beneficial to share with your boss and co-workers. 2 Do not overdo eye contact. Eye contact is important. However, constant eye contact can come off as too intense. People do tend to associate eye contact with confidence and attentiveness, but overdoing it may make you appear distrustful. It's appropriate to hold someone's eye contact for about 7 to 10 seconds and then look away for a moment.[11] Eye contact may also be less appropriate in certain cultures. Asian cultures may find eye contact disrespectful. If you're meeting someone from a different culture, make sure to read up on social etiquette surrounding eye contact. 3Keep an open mind when listening. Everyone has opinions and their own sense of what's right and normal. When you're listening very attentively to another person, they may sometimes say things you take issue with. However, while you're listening, it's important to keep judgment behind. If you find yourself making judgments about someone, pause and remind yourself to focus on the words. You can analyze information later. When listening, just focus on the speaker and leave judgment behind.[12] Advertisement Add New Question Question When I'm at school, I try to listen to my teacher talking, but then the person who sits next to me says something funny and I start talking to them. What can I do? Tasha Rube is a Licensed Social Worker based in Kansas City, Kansas. Tasha is affiliated with the Dwight D. Eisenhower VA Medical Center in Leavenworth, Kansas. She received her Masters of Social Work MSW from the University of Missouri in 2014. Licensed Master Social Worker Expert Answer Support wikiHow by unlocking this expert answer. If you are noticing you are becoming easily distracted in class and it is making it more difficult to focus on the teacher, then first respectfully ask the other person to not talk to you when the teacher is speaking. You can also try to ignore the other person sitting next to you while the teacher is speaking. If these strategies don't work, then you can switch to a new seat where there is less distraction. If there is an assigned seating area, approach the teacher and inform him/her of your concern. Ask a Question 200 characters left Include your email address to get a message when this question is answered. Submit Advertisement Before partaking in conversation, consider whether your contribution is necessary or not; if not, keep quiet. Advertisement References About This Article Article SummaryXIf trying to think before you speak hasnât helped you speak less, try paying attention to how long youâve been talking. As you speak, check your audienceâs body language to see if theyâre paying attention, and stop if they seem bored or distracted. Though it might be uncomfortable at first, learn to be ok with silence, and try not to worry about impressing other people with your conversation skills. To learn more about how to listen more from out Social Worker co-author, keep reading! Did this summary help you? Thanks to all authors for creating a page that has been read 638,642 times. Reader Success Stories David Svarrer Oct 15, 2017 "It is good to read about how one can learn to communicate more effectively/efficiently. I have always had a..." more Did this article help you?
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